Typically, for a girl who has grown, girls who are working overseas, a daughter who joined her husband’s wander outside the city or abroad, girls who school or college away from both parents, will often feel missed with their mother.
And what about Dad?
Perhaps, because mothers often call to ask your situation every day. But do you know, apparently father was the one who reminds Mom to call you…
Maybe once when you’re little, mother was the one who often telling a story to you, but do you know? That after father worked and tired, father was always asking about are you and what did you do all day?
By the time you are still a little girl. Father is usually teach his little daughter to ride a bike. And after he know you can, he will release the auxiliary wheel in your bike.
Then Mother said: “Not yet, Dad! Don’t be release the auxiliary wheel!”
Mother was afraid if her sweet daughter fell, and hurt ….
But do you realize?
That father with confidence will let you, look at you, and watch carefully when you are pedaling your bike.. Because he knows his little girl SURE CAN.
When you cry, whine request new dolls or toys, mother looked at you with pity. But father will say emphatically: “We can buy it later, but not now.”
Do you know? Dad do that because he don’t want you become a spoiled child with all the demands.
When you’re cold, father who was too worried, sometimes he yell a little by saying: “Have I told you! Do not drink cold water! “.
Not the same as mother who observe and advise you gently.
Know that, father really worried about you.
When you’ve got teenagers. You start demanding on father for permission to go out at night, and father was firm and said: “Not allowed!”.
Did you know that father do that to take care of you?
As for Dad, you are something very-very extraordinary valuable..
After that you’re mad at father, and entered the room, slamming the door …
And who comes knocking door to persuade you not to upset is mother ….
Do you know? That father closed his eyes and holding within his inner turmoil.
Father was eager to follow your wishes, but once again he MUST take care of you?
When a guy started to often call you or even come to the house to see you.
Dad would put the coolest face in the world :’)
Father occasionally eavesdropping, peeping when you are chatting together in the living room.
Do you realize, if father feel jealous?
When you begin to be more believable, and father relax a little out of the house rules for you, you will force to violate time at night.
So, that father was sitting in the living room, and waiting to go home with a heart that is very worry…
And he feel protracted worried …
When he saw his little girl’s came home late at night, father angry to you.. His heart will harden.. .
Do you realize? This is because what father feared will coming soon.
“That his little girl will soon be going to leave him.”
After graduating from high school, father will be a little force you to become a scholar.
Know that, father just thinking about your future later …
But father still smile and support you when your choice is not the same with his wishes..
When you become an adult girl. And you have to go to college in another city. Dad must let you go when at the airport.
Do you know that father’s body was stiff to hold you?
He just smiled as he gave advices, and tell you to be careful. .
And he want to cry like a mother and hug you tight.
Father just remove a little tear in the corner of his eyes, patted your shoulder and saying: “Take care of yourself, dear.”
Dad do it all for you STRONGER. Strong to go and become adults.
When you need money to finance your lecture and your life, the first person who frowned is father.
Father must have try hard to find a way so that his children can feel the same with other friends.
When your request is no longer simply asking a new doll, and he know he can not give what you want.
The words that came out of father’s mouth was : “No. No way!”.
In fact in father’s mind, he was eager to say “Yes dear, I’ll buy it for you.”
Do you know that father feels failed to make his child smile of that moment?
It’s time for you to graduated as a scholar.
Father was the first person who stand up and applaud for you.
Father will smile with pride and satisfaction of seeing “his little girl who are not spoiled, who grow up successfully, and has become a person”.
Until when your boyfriend came over and asked for permission to father to take you from him.
Father would be very careful to give permission.
Because he know.
That man is who will replace his position later.
And finally…
When father saw you sitting on the bridal stage with a man who worthy man to replace his position, father was smiling happy.
Do you know? In that happy day, father went backward stage for a while, and weep?
Father was crying because he is very happy, then father prayed.
In a quiet prayer to God, father said :
“Oh, Allah. My cute little girl who I love has become a beautiful woman. May she happy with her husband.”
After that, father could only wait your arrive with his grandchildren who occasionally come to visit him. Father has completed his duty to guide and protect you.
Our father is a figure that should always look strong. Even when he was not too strong to not cry. He should look firm. Even when he wants to pamper you.
And he was the first person who always believes that “YOU CAN” in all things.